This is a major skill to be synchronous. In flirtation it is felt very keenly, because communication gets underbottom, to hold both threads people should really be co-tuned.
Lesson XIX (3.5) “Game of a Partner”
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Task to the video lesson
Task is to practice your receptivity to metaphors and games. Analogy thinking should be involved. Catch words within any communication, catch passes of metaphors and allegories, of comparisons and analogies. Play along, develop the game: “Are you as tired as a dog? Come, I’ll scratch your neck”.