If she were not she he would no be he. He is sure to change when she realizes herself different. Everyone experienced this process, but the majority remain with the stupid conviction that the world is hard.
There are people who consider their relationship partners a punishment. That’s what they deserve, they should have made a proper choice and shouldn’t complain. The one who does not feel pride and admiration of his or her partner is far from understanding the Sheo-approach.
“I’ll love you till death” can be anytime, while check can only be after death. It turns out, the only argument in support of such nonsense is tone. Oh, no, one must also clasp the hands to the breast and elevate the eyebrows to the ears.
It is a subtle point, whether one is responsible for ensuring a partner’s happiness in a relationship. I think, (s)he is not responsible. Who can force one to be happy? But we are responsible for giving everything necessary for his/her happiness. Drive up, open the door, beam, and let him/her decide if (s)he really wants to sit or maybe walk.
Developing relations means exploring new sides of your partner. Developing your own personality means exploring new sides of yourself. That’s what we need roles for, they make world spin faster and we turn our different sides to it which accelerates development and does not let boredom happen.