It is naive to think that today we learn to build and develop relations on the model of relations of the past, those of our grandfathers and grandmothers. Those relations were built on a real gender inequality, on sexual specialization which factually does not exist any more. A modern woman can and is able to do everything a man can (plus she can give birth to children) and and it is not likely that her development will go backwards. Obedience games, the earlier times games are nothing but games. Actually it is equality, partnership, it is a creative and business cooperation.