To fuck a person you respect with great feeling is difficult in a way. What is respect? It is an aggression brake. What is sex? It is a channel for aggression to go out, it loosens the brakes. That is why there are many people insulted by the very idea of desire and sex. They build their relations behind a bullet-proof glass of respect. Out of an aquarium.
Of course, lying girls excite boys more. These are generally “bad” girls that excite – sly, naughty, reserved, unpredictable ones. That is why a wife has less chance than a mistress. On the other hand, the more exciting features a girl has the less desire for a stable relation a boy will get. And here we are surrounded by desperate housewives with flames raging and breaking out.
Many people think that shifting personal boundaries for the sake of a partner killed their relationship. No, it didn’t. Relations were destroyed by the fear of losing control. People could open the door but chained it, which made a gap: there was still control, there was still a cage, but relationship had gone.