Test “Renewing Relationship”

Check how well you can deal with difficulties of later periods of relations – dusting them, reviving and renewing, as well as finish them if necessary. 16 questions, no registration required, immediate answers with comments.

Choose one item out of the list as an answer to a question. At the end of the test you will know your scores and your Sheo-level, as well as the right answers to every question together with explanatory comments.

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Question 1 of 16

1. How to learn to trust?

you don’t need to learn to trust, you should learn to assess risks

to keep a public diary (in a social network) for a year at least

to sit in front of a mirror and say the nastiest things you think of yourself

to choose one person and become more and more open to him/her until fears disappear

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Question 2 of 16

2. What should you begin with if you want to return your partner’s respect?

cause his/her fear

cause his pleasant surprise

cause his/her jealousy

cause his/her admiration

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Question 3 of 16

3. Work on restoring interest in relations makes a person:

a Following partner: maintaining interest in relations is a function of a Follower

a Leading partner: he/she has to take all the responsibility for relations

a Following partner: he/she will have to restore own interest first of all

a Leading partner: he/she has to deal with the further prospects of the relationship

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Question 4 of 16

4. The right answer to the question “Why doesn’t a partner want sex?” is the most likely to be:

because we both need a breather

because I don’t want to excite him/her any more

because there is somebody who has got more interest in than in me

because he/she does not love me truly

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Question 5 of 16

5. If you notice that your partner has started shrinking into him/herself often what should you talk about?

about sex

about your common big dream

about unsatisfied needs and demands

about a high mission of your relationship

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Question 6 of 16

6. It seems to you that your partner is flirting with someone in the net. You

will keep silent in the hope it will settle by itself

will ask: “Who are you corresponding with?”

will also start flirting with somebody

will discreetly try to find out who the partner is flirting with

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Question 7 of 16

7. If your partner is seriously in love with someone and their relations are in high gear you:

will get apart with him/her until he changes his/her mind, and then we will see

will be near until you have feelings to him/her

will be near until his/her feelings get stronger or disappear

will leave him/her forever

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Question 8 of 16

8. You partner left you and has been living with another person for a month, two, three months. What are you doing?

I am trying to start over with a clean sheet, meeting people, dating

I am doing my best to persuade him/her to come back

I am pretending he/she has left on a long business trip and waiting

I am changing the place of residence and job to forget him/her

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Question 9 of 16

9. How to restore intimacy after a period of “hard time” in relations?

To go somewhere (on holiday, hiking) only two of you together

To meet old friends more often

To make sex more often

To talk holding hands

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Question 10 of 16

10. You, being in a permanent relationship, have been mashed on someone. It is innocent so far. Should you tell your partner about it?

Yes, but in some time when it is clear where this new feeling leads to

Yes, but not in a detail, just to give a hint

Definitely yes, you should discuss the situation together

No, because it will either finish or… anyway, no

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Question 11 of 16

11. There are people who have their relations fine. What should they be thought about?

They should be lucky; they have grown in a different environment

They experienced the same as we are experiencing and cope with it, we will cope as well

Someone has met a soulmate, I haven’t yet

It is more likely to be a veneer

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Question 12 of 16

12. How to start a new relationship without stepping on the same rake?

No way: all the lessons that haven’t been taught will repeat again

It's impossible to step the same rake, new relations will bring opportunities to learn a new hard way

To look for the same rake, and it is likely that everything will turn out differently

To try to do everything differently

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Question 13 of 16

13. How to take useful experience of past relations into new ones?

there is no way to do it, it is already there, as experience is not in the air, it is in the head and in the body

in no way, think of past experience you will miss new one

to ask yourself: “What have these relations taught me?” and write down the answers

to ask a partner what he/she has taught in relations with you

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Question 14 of 16

14. You have split up with a partner. Forever. But you still feel pain. You want to forget him/her. What do you start with?

with accepting the fact that you will not be able to forget anything in the nearest months

with muting “broadcast” meaning you will not talk about it with anybody

with taking off the sight all the things connected with these relations

with search for a new relationship

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Question 15 of 16

15. You work together with your ex and it prevents you from starting a new life… What can you do about it?

To repeat: “Nothing will finish until we see each other” often

To come across each other less, to immerse yourself in work

To wait until the wounds heal, and then you’ll see

To start a relationship with a colleague to show him/her what’s what

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Question 16 of 16

16. How do you understand love in relations? Rather as…

a temporary impulse which can subside or even come to naught if it is not taken of

eternal magic which comes to life when destiny units two people meant for each other

a result of large common work, a consequence of a long mutual service

a one-side self-sacrifice act which is not always

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