Sheo-Test “Developing Relationship”

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Question 1 of 16

1. Should you prove a partner you need him?

If there is love there is no need to prove anything

You should sell your necessity to a partner all the time

You should live easily, be yourself, and don’t make yourself over to a partner

Both should prove

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Question 2 of 16

2. What to begin development of relations with?

You should learn to give a man what he needs

You should teach a partner to give you what you want

You should teach a partner to equally contribute to relations

You should learn to explain a partner he can’t get everything he wants

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Question 3 of 16

3. In serious relations ecology is kept with:

love

jealousy

contract

playfulness

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Question 4 of 16

4. How to make your partner be not only interested “in one thing only”?

To satisfy “one thing only” one hundred percent, in absolute full

To replace “one thing” with diverse others

To explain that you have dignity and he humiliates you with this “one thing”

To realize that “one thing only” is your fears and limitations

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Question 5 of 16

5. Which partner (all else being equal) is more preferable in terms of future of relations?

With no experience (“blank list”)

With a negative relationship experience

With a positive experience of short-term relations

With a positive experience of long-term relations

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Question 6 of 16

6. What the Bitch role can be useful for in a relationship?

To protect oneself from the pain a partner can inflict

To be quits for the injustice later

To strengthen relations through hurting a partner

To make it easier to resist the pressure of the society (Where is your family? Where are your children? Etc.)

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Question 7 of 16

7. When are relations finished?

When it is clear from the behavior of the partner that he has lost interest

When partners have agreed to consider their relations finished

When I consider them finished

Never

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Question 8 of 16

8. To strengthen developing relations it is useful to:

Make the partner madly jealous

Show the partner you do not withdraw from the relationship market

Show the partner you don’t need anybody but him

Discuss mutual obligations with the partner

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Question 9 of 16

9. How to distinguish between a Leading and a Following partner?

The Leading one is the one who earns more

The Leading one is the one who knows what the couple needs relations for

The Leading partner is the one who know why the world needs relations

The Leading partner is the one who has the last word

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Question 10 of 16

10. If your partner is lying you should ask yourself:

Why does it always happen to me?

How have I brought him to this?

Do I definitely know he is lying? Are there firm facts?

What is he afraid of?

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Question 11 of 16

11. When can a Leading and a Following partners reverse their roles?

Whenever – on agreement between the partners

When one or both partners’ ideas on the meaning of relations change

Never

On a significant change of the partners’ status and incomes

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Question 12 of 16

12. For relations to continue it is important:

Not to let your partner be unfaithful

To think you are forever in this relationship

To carefully monitor the implementation of social commitments (home, children, parents…)

To treat them as a terminal (temporary) contract

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Question 13 of 16

13. A partner has sent a message. Should it be answered immediately or should one wait? Or should it not be answered at all?

It should be answered immediately and asap

It should be answered with a deliberate delay

One should puzzle as usual (the answer should always be unpredictable time wise)

One should puzzle unexpectedly (if one is predictable every day today she or he should be not)

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Question 14 of 16

14. How can one check her or his choice is right?

To go on a separate trip and see how much joy there will be when you finally meet

To come to live together – everything will get clear in some time

To take a few sessions together with a psychologist

To engage into threesome and see whether there will be feelings left

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Question 15 of 16

15. What is the best way to treat “ex” and “present” of your partner?

To communicate and be friends if possible

Better not know about them

To know about them but to never talk of them

To talk about them, but not to communicate with them

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Question 16 of 16

16. Which of the four roles “work” in the period of relations development?

“Whore” — makes the life a sexual adventure

“Mistress” — inspires by beauty and easiness

“Wife” — turns relations into responsible collaboration

“Mother” — helps to get rid of excessive emotional weight

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A Girl’s Tower
February 1, 2016 Sasha Sheo Leave a comment

Aside

You will not be able to build relations with somebody until you build them with yourself. The desire to be crowned can push you off the draught board.

You will not be able to build
February 27, 2017 Anastasia Leave a comment
Before making emotional statements ask yourself what information sources you have, whose worldview you think so competent that you have taken it for granted and are spreading around. What could you really vouch for and on what grounds? Even if it is a personal experience is it possible to say with confidence that this experience under different circumstances and with other people wouldn’t bring a different result? We live in the world of probabilities, not firm facts. Maybe.

Before making emotional statements
February 26, 2017 Anastasia Leave a comment
Your partner will not cease behaving like a child unless you cease behaving like his mother. But you will not, will you? Because when he “grows up” he will get the right to vote and you will have to take it into account and won’t be able to wave it aside. It is much easier now: don’t anger your Mummy, Mummy is tired, live me alone, you can only think of games, get a life, you are a disaster for me.

Your partner will not cease
February 23, 2017 Anastasia Leave a comment
People manipulate each other not from malice, but out of ingenuous belief that the content of other people’s heads does not differ from those of their own one.

People manipulate
February 20, 2017 Anastasia Leave a comment
I believe that there should be some cultural inequality between partners – it allows one of them to refine as a teacher, and the other one – as a pupil. But if this cultural inequality is added with intellectual inequality (one is able to understand what the other one is not) or values inequality (what is important for one is not important for the other) relations will be spoilt and the gap will grow.

I believe that there should be some
February 17, 2017 Anastasia Leave a comment
People lose the senses of proportion and limit in two cases: when everything is allowed and when everything is banned. In the first case a person goes too far, in the second one – his wits end.

Very often it is a mirror pattern: one partner goes mad of impunity, the other one is exhausted with bans – wherever you go you bump into a fence. A girl is tortured by the question: “Why is he allowed everything and why am I allowed nothing?” But she can’t jump over the fence. She is even afraid to approach it.

But once it turns topsy-turvy. All the fences are washed away, everything goes down the drain, revolutions begin and the former relationship bones are being danced on. The one with the rights is ready to drop all these rights if only he can return the former mouse, so speechless and so comfortable. But it is already too late.

Why? Why has it happened so? The mouse has won a mandate for destroying old and reforming life. The mandate is called “Love”. Love is the highest permission. It gives freedom to a slave. Even if not freedom, then St. George’s’day – the opportunity to choose a new lord.

But it was possible not to take the things to the edge if one of the partners hadn’t been blowing hot air so much, and the other one hadn’t been so patient. But for some reason nobody understands it. In any relations – either personal, or business or public ones.

People lose the senses
February 16, 2017 Anastasia Leave a comment

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