Sheo-Test “Beginning Relationship”

Check how well you can learn from your past relationships and build a new one. Choose one item out of the list as an answer to a question. At the end of the test you will know your scores and your Sheo-level, as well as the right answers to every question together with explanatory comments.

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Question 1 of 16

1. How to form a habit of relationship if you have never had long-term relations yet?

Wait for true love which will be just enough to form a habit of relationship

Learn to choose a partner who would act up to your wishes and demands

Develop a habit of relationship through practicing self-love

Practice to act in accordance with some other person’s wishes no matter who he or she is

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Question 2 of 16

2. How to raise self-assurance?

Find a way to never do the things you hate (say to never take the initiative to get acquainted with somebody if you are afraid of it, but to learn acting in a way that will stimulate other people to take the initiative of getting acquainted with you)

Regularly do things you are afraid of (meet in the street, in restaurants, on the Internet) until it gets easy for you

Create and expand the circle of people you feel comfortable with and try not to step outside this circle

Develop confidence on your own through achieving results in the spheres of your interest, and then publicly reveal it

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Question 3 of 16

3. A “difficult” partner is more preferable for ecological relationship, as he or she…

can help to better adopt to life

allows to raise one’s forbearing and patience

elevates a person in front of others

helps one’s development towards easiness and flexibility

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Question 4 of 16

4. What does it mean “to act oneself”?

To try being what you are afraid to be

To try accentuating your other best qualities

To show maximum flexibility in change

To be oneself no matter what

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Question 5 of 16

5. Why does the ecology of relationship directly depend on a dream?

Abstract idea (“dream”) allows not to get caught in an endless loop of daily routine

Big Dream is a sign of a person’s spiritual development

Far and common dream motivates to a long-term interaction

People having a dream view the world more positively

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Question 6 of 16

6. Ecological relationship is the one when…

Man serves Woman

two originally not equal to each other people join relationship on equal terms

originally equal partners join unequal relationship

unequal partners cooperate to achieve equality

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Question 7 of 16

7. Deep fear of humiliation/slavery helps women to realize the role of a…

“supermodel”

“housewife”

“business-woman”

“specialist”

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Question 8 of 16

8. Which “difficult” partner is better for a family and stability oriented person?

the same as he or she is

achievement, money and status oriented

wide recognition oriented

personal and professional development oriented

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Question 9 of 16

9. It is right for relationship ecology that acquaintance is initiated by the partner who aspires to be…

no difference which partner initiates acquaintance

a Leader

a Follower being male

a Follower

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Question 10 of 16

10. How to better deal with emotions when you are over excited at the first meeting?

Try to talk less and don’t let on

Go away and wait for the next time when you are not shaking that much

Use excitement as a way to add you charm

Mind over matter suppress emotions

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Question 11 of 16

11. Which statement is preferable long-term relationship wise?

Frequently break test relations, they will get stronger like muscles

Humility, silence and patience

Explosive start and more vivid emotion all along

Relations never end so mine will definitely survive till the morning

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Question 12 of 16

12. Which is the best way for social network self-positioning?

As a person potential partners would like you to be

As a person you think you are

As a person going through development which is not easy for you but you manage to

As a person you would like to be

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Question 13 of 16

13. What to start acquaintance with a man with?

“You are sexually attractive”

“You’ve got a beautiful car”

“You resemble the one who might be my children’s father”

“You are a very interesting person”

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Question 14 of 16

14. Ecological relations prefer…

complex equality (all issues are prepared by one of the partners and then are discussed and decided upon together)

simple inequality (everything is decided by the Leading Partner)

simple equality (all issues are discussed and decided upon together)

complex inequality (the final decision is with the partner in charge of a definite context)

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Question 15 of 16

15. Should one say about his or her relationship expectations on the first date?

One should say the things that will help to know as much truth as possible about the person he or she is having a date with

No, one shouldn’t

One should partly tell the truth so not to frighten a potential partner

Yes, he or she should

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Question 16 of 16

16. What in the list resembles relations most of all?

A project (process of creating something)

A field (where you can build, play, plant…)

A battle (who wins)

A product (building, ship, suit)

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A Girl’s Tower
February 1, 2016 Sasha Sheo Leave a comment

Aside

You will not be able to build relations with somebody until you build them with yourself. The desire to be crowned can push you off the draught board.

You will not be able to build
February 27, 2017 Anastasia Leave a comment
Before making emotional statements ask yourself what information sources you have, whose worldview you think so competent that you have taken it for granted and are spreading around. What could you really vouch for and on what grounds? Even if it is a personal experience is it possible to say with confidence that this experience under different circumstances and with other people wouldn’t bring a different result? We live in the world of probabilities, not firm facts. Maybe.

Before making emotional statements
February 26, 2017 Anastasia Leave a comment
Your partner will not cease behaving like a child unless you cease behaving like his mother. But you will not, will you? Because when he “grows up” he will get the right to vote and you will have to take it into account and won’t be able to wave it aside. It is much easier now: don’t anger your Mummy, Mummy is tired, live me alone, you can only think of games, get a life, you are a disaster for me.

Your partner will not cease
February 23, 2017 Anastasia Leave a comment
People manipulate each other not from malice, but out of ingenuous belief that the content of other people’s heads does not differ from those of their own one.

People manipulate
February 20, 2017 Anastasia Leave a comment
I believe that there should be some cultural inequality between partners – it allows one of them to refine as a teacher, and the other one – as a pupil. But if this cultural inequality is added with intellectual inequality (one is able to understand what the other one is not) or values inequality (what is important for one is not important for the other) relations will be spoilt and the gap will grow.

I believe that there should be some
February 17, 2017 Anastasia Leave a comment
People lose the senses of proportion and limit in two cases: when everything is allowed and when everything is banned. In the first case a person goes too far, in the second one – his wits end.

Very often it is a mirror pattern: one partner goes mad of impunity, the other one is exhausted with bans – wherever you go you bump into a fence. A girl is tortured by the question: “Why is he allowed everything and why am I allowed nothing?” But she can’t jump over the fence. She is even afraid to approach it.

But once it turns topsy-turvy. All the fences are washed away, everything goes down the drain, revolutions begin and the former relationship bones are being danced on. The one with the rights is ready to drop all these rights if only he can return the former mouse, so speechless and so comfortable. But it is already too late.

Why? Why has it happened so? The mouse has won a mandate for destroying old and reforming life. The mandate is called “Love”. Love is the highest permission. It gives freedom to a slave. Even if not freedom, then St. George’s’day – the opportunity to choose a new lord.

But it was possible not to take the things to the edge if one of the partners hadn’t been blowing hot air so much, and the other one hadn’t been so patient. But for some reason nobody understands it. In any relations – either personal, or business or public ones.

People lose the senses
February 16, 2017 Anastasia Leave a comment

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