It is amazing how many relations break apart because girls expect a kind of “chivalrous” behaviour from boys. It gets much worse when a boy tries to behave this way. As a boy behaving like a girl (sharing girls’ ideas of he-man) needs a girl behaving like a boy. But there are few such girls, so it is better in any way to pretend being a bumpkin and take a rare shower. This strategy, as harsh as it is, brings good therapeutic results: a girl’s relations will not succeed until her dreams get broken, buried and grown over with grass.