Do we really love a person we make a bone with saying he is dressed not well enough, is doing wrong things, and is courting the wrong way? Oh, come on, if the feeling is really strong why not to forgive these trifles? If they are not trifles how can we feel love to the person? There is no need caving in to the world we have nothing to give to, and there is no sense in making the world you accept cave in to you.